unplanned pregnancies

If you are sexually active before marriage then it is completely natural. Nothing shameful or disturbing about that. But when you are making love the primary concern is that you have to be being safe and secure. That is when you understand how critical it is to use condoms or contraceptive pills. Not only do they help you in avoiding a STD, it also aids you to in avoiding unwanted pregnancies. An unplanned pregnancy is scary business and this proposition is emotionally and physically draining. But becoming a mother is also blissful. Read these 15 real unplanned pregnancy stories that will touch your heart and show you different facets of motherhood – 1. It Is A Tough Trauma To Recover From “I got pregnant when I was 18 and unfortunately didn’t realize until I was almost 3 months in. I was dating a terrible guy who refused to support me through this. When I told him that I was pregnant, he broke up with me the next day! I had to deal with everything that followed myself. I obviously couldn’t tell my parents so I decided to confide in my closest friends. One of them took me to the abortion clinic while the other one stayed over with me for a few days and handled my mother. We realized that we had passed the point of taking a pill. We had to go through an actual abortion. They would need to vacuum clean my uterus – and without parental consent, we managed to find a doctor who was willing to do it. I scheduled the abortion for a Saturday morning, it was one of the worst experiences of my life. I could feel stuff being sucked out of me and I could see all the contents (of my uterus) being pulped in a glass canister. I’ve never forgiven myself for it, it still haunts me. Because the abortion was so intense, I couldn’t get out of bed for a week. The bleeding continued for about a month. By the end of the experience, I swore off men and sex until I found the man I knew I wanted to marry.”  – Anonymous